In this world, sometimes people don't fail only in a particular thing,in fact they fail in many other things,they fail their dreams, they fail their confidence, they fail their self-esteem,even some of them fail their lives.
Why failure is crucial for us?
Failure is a crucial part of life.In fact, failure is essential because failure is life's great teacher, who teaches us many invaluable lessons of life.
But when we think about failure, we think of things in a negative way.We say that failure is the cause of remorse, regret and emotional turmoil, failure gives us pain.
In my opinion, this pain of failure ultimately help us to gain.
Michael Jordan said,"I failed over and over and over again in my life.And that's why I succeed.
How to deal with failure?
If we explore carefully then we'll get ,we are facing failure from our childhood. But that time we didn't give importance to failure because then we hadn't fear of failure.
Let you tell me,when you were the few months old child then,did you learn walk in single step? I think no,because I also failed many times during learning that. And we didn't fail once,not twice, even not ten times.We failed many times and if we gave up that time then we haven't stand on our feet.That was our success.
Don't make emotional attachment
As we all know that failure is a part of success still many people are try to hide their failure to their selves. Just because they haven't found the right way of do a particular work.It doesn't mean that you are a failure. If you think that you are a failure then it can be drop a negative effects on you in the both manner physical and mentally. This thing can become the cause of low confidence,depression and low self-esteem.
A person who grew up poor in communist China, failed his university entrance exam twice after a great deal of studying, he finally passed on the third try.He graduated on 1988 and started applying to as many jobs as he could that time.He received more than a dozen rejections and after sometime, he hired as an English teacher.He was a natural with his students and loved his job although he only made $12 a month at a local university. He rejected from Harvard university almost ten times.He had no experience of computers or coding, but he captivated by the internet when he used it for the first time during a trip to the US in 1995.He had started a translation business and made the trip to help a Chinese firm recover a payment. His first online search was "beer". Though his first two ventures failed, four years later he gathered 17 of his friends in his apartment and convinced them to invest in his vision for an online marketplace. Soon,the service started to attract members from all over the world. By October 1999,the company had raised $5 million from Goldman Sachs and $20 million from Softbank. He said to a gathering of his employees " We will make it because we are young and we never,never give up".
In 2005,Yahoo invested $1 billion in his company in exchange for about a 40% stake in the company. This was huge for his company at the time it was trying to beat eBay in China and it would eventually be an enormous win for Yahoo too,netting it $10 billion his company's IPO alone.
The company's $150 billion IPO was the largest offering for a US-listed company in the history of the New York stock exchange. It also made his the richest person of China, with an estimated worth of $25 billion.
This successful person name is Jack MA, CEO of Ali Baba group.
Find out the specific cause of failure
If you dwelling on your failure then it can become the cause of anger,frustration, anxiety, blame, regret, so don't dwelling on it instead of that you should try to see the positive side of failure and ask to yourself that,what did you learn from this?
Every failure has a specific cause and this defect either in you or in your way which have you applied to achieve succeed.Sometimes defect can be in both things.
If the defect is in you then start to improve it by yourself. And remind your previous mistakes which you made in last attempt.
If the defect is in your way of approach, take advice to experience holder of that particular work,ask for guidance to Master's of that field.
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